Taking the kids out of the house for a weekend outing or even errands can be a production. Other factors can add to the stress like going out on your own with the kids or having multiple kids you have to get ready. I have certainly experienced anxiety and fear when considering the idea of venturing out with my kids. I remember the first time I went out with my first two alone and then years later when I went out with the three kids alone, and to me, it was something to be proud of! It’ll happen eventually but with two under two right now and currently still being on maternity leave, I am not rushing to go out with all four on my own. However, I love going out with my kids and I have learned that being as prepared as possible helps me manage the inevitable challenges we are bound to face when leaving the house. It’s important to me that these tips are as practical as possible; I want you to have faith in yourself, too!
1. Have a plan for the day but be flexible.
Give yourself room for flexibility. Work to get out the door at 9:30a but tell yourself 9:45a is okay too if the morning doesn’t go according to plan. Having fewer expectations for the day leaves you with fewer chances to be disappointed or frustrated.
2. Make a list.
Write out everything you expect you’ll need for the next day and check each item off as you put it in a bag or in a drop zone by the door. Use the questionnaire/checklist I’ve included below to help.
3. Prepare the night before.
Mornings can be hectic, do your tomorrow-self a favor and use the list you created to help prep your snacks, diaper bag, and other go bags for the next day. Make sure any necessary electronics are charged.
4. Play the day out in your head.
From start to finish, consider the day’s events and refer back to your list to make sure you have everything you need for the day.
5. Debrief with yourself.
Once the day is over, consider any new challenges you faced and if you felt prepared for them. Also consider if you need to change something up because it’s no longer working for you.
